anyone know about do-it-yourslf divorces?help!can it be done? 

Divorce can be do-it-yourself if both parties agree on the issues - property division, child support, etc. 

Yes it can, unless there are children involved. Then it's best to go through a lawyer. My mom divorced my dad after about 10 years of separation and went and got the kit from 1/2 price books I think. I'll check with her and let you know.