My sister in law was due days earlier than me with her first baby, Kain. Today due to unknown complications he has passed. She was supposed to be induced on 12/28. She didn't feel him kicking so she went to the ER.
I know God has his reasons but I can't help but ask why?!!! They were both healthy for 9 months!!!
How heartbreaking, I am so sorry for your pain and loss.
Without getting too deep within this subject, please consider that these things happen in nature, in human bodies, in the world around us, there is sickness, disease and pain. God didn't want this to happen. It just did. I pray for the healing and comfort of your family.
When you are ready I recommend the blog of a friend of mine that went through a similar experience. It truly was life changing for me to read it when I had a very difficult pregnancy. She talks very openly and honestly about all of those questions--and answers them with a maturity of faith that pulled me out of a dark place and reminded me of Christs love and hope and purpose.
Start from the beginning to see the story. Beautiful and life changing.
My friend went through the same thing a couple years ago and had Now I Lay Me Down To Sleep come in and take beautiful photos of her and her DH with their baby girl. Surgery are a wonderful organization.
We almost lost my second daughter the same way. Same thing happened. No movement, went to ER. Luckily they got her out in time. She had bruises for a long time where the cord was so tight around her little neck. Your family is in my prayers. I am so sorry for your family's loss.
My mother in law went through the same scenario with her relative. My brother in law (who is 18 now) was born around the same time her aunt gave birth to a still born. It was a hard time for all involved. Please make sure help is rendered to those in need!