Christmas will never be the same for my family.

My sister in law was due days earlier than me with her first baby, Kain. Today due to unknown complications he has passed. She was supposed to be induced on 12/28. She didn't feel him kicking so she went to the ER.

I know God has his reasons but I can't help but ask why?!!! They were both healthy for 9 months!!! 

So sad, many prayers for all of you. 

So sad
I am so sorry for your loss.

Prayers for the family 

So very sorry- many prayers and thoughts 

I am so so so sorry for you, your SIL, and the rest of the family.

Prayers for all involved. 

Prayers for all 

Very sad news, prayers for the whole family. 

I am so very sorry :( The loss of a child even unborn is so hard... My thoughts and prayers for understanding be with you all. 

Prayers for your family.... 

Very sorry for your family's loss. Sending many prayers. 

So very sorry... Saying a prayer now. 

How heartbreaking, I am so sorry for your pain and loss.

Without getting too deep within this subject, please consider that these things happen in nature, in human bodies, in the world around us, there is sickness, disease and pain. God didn't want this to happen. It just did. I pray for the healing and comfort of your family. 

So very sorry for your families loss. 

speechless....prayers for your brother & sister-inlaw, you and your family. 

When you are ready I recommend the blog of a friend of mine that went through a similar experience. It truly was life changing for me to read it when I had a very difficult pregnancy. She talks very openly and honestly about all of those questions--and answers them with a maturity of faith that pulled me out of a dark place and reminded me of Christs love and hope and purpose.

Jonathansbabyjournal.blogspot.com

Start from the beginning to see the story. Beautiful and life changing. 

My heart hurts for you and your family. ...I'm sorry for your loss. 

So sorry for your loss, praying. 

So very sorry...prayers for your SIL and family. 

Oh :( I am so sorry. So sorry. I can't imagine. I am here if you need a friend. We should email the prayer lady at church and get a chain going. I am praying for her right now. 

It was the umbilical cord.

I just want to throw up. 

so terrible :( So many prayers for ya'll! Just stay close to them and hold them... they really will need people. 

I am so very sorry :(. Prayers for her and the whole family, including you, of course. 

Oh Ibarra that is just so terribly sad. 

Praying. 

Prayers being said right now for them. 

So very sorry to hear this. I pray God's peace envelops you all. 

Prayers for her. I can not understand why these things happen, but hopefully she will find a silver lining in this somehow. 

Praying for you and your family 

My friend has a non-profit organization that helps parents who have lost a child in utero or after. Check out the website, they might be able to help.

http://precioustendermoments.org/

praying for your family! 

I'm so sorry. :(

My friend went through the same thing a couple years ago and had Now I Lay Me Down To Sleep come in and take beautiful photos of her and her DH with their baby girl. Surgery are a wonderful organization. 

So sorry for the loss. Prayers for your SIL and family. 

More prayers coming you way I am so sorry to hear about your loss. 

We almost lost my second daughter the same way. Same thing happened. No movement, went to ER. Luckily they got her out in time. She had bruises for a long time where the cord was so tight around her little neck. Your family is in my prayers. I am so sorry for your family's loss. 

This thread is so sad....this is every pregnant woman's fear. :(

I'm so sorry for her loss...I can't imagine her pain and grief. And I know you must be feeling awful as well....I'm so sorry. :(

I know there are support groups and counselors for these situations...please encourage her to talk to someone. 

The funeral is Saturday. My DH wil be going for the weekend to be with his family in San Antonio. Since I just had Caleb we have to stay home. Ill probably stay with my mother.

I saw a photo of Kain tonight. He was perfection.

I feel guilt. I got to bring my baby home. 

I am so very sorry,many prayers. 

Please continue to pray for my sister in law. She is blocking out her family at times and is thinning rapidly. :(

I find myself crying every single day over the pain I know the she feels and for the loss of my nephew. My newborn son is a constant reminder to everyone of the loss of Kain. 

get her to a dr. Get her some help. Have a therapist or counsler come to the house and see her. Call someone. Maybe Familytime can get you with people that can come sit with her.

She needs proof that her life is ok to live. This is the most pain staking days for her. She will blame herself forever unless ya'll step up and get her someone with experience to talk to.

God with with yall and prayers for her. But this type of depression has to be a professional :( 

Prayers

Those are pretty normal symptoms of grief though not really abnormal at all. 

My mother in law went through the same scenario with her relative. My brother in law (who is 18 now) was born around the same time her aunt gave birth to a still born. It was a hard time for all involved. Please make sure help is rendered to those in need!

My prayers are with you and your family!