Who wants a man that is attached? Who needs all that baggage and drama? Really, when I was dating, it was a big deal for me to date someone that had kids and an ex, much less a current wife! Never would do that! Not only a bad idea for yourself but what about the other people involved, especially children?
People that are attracted to someone more because they are, for all intents and purposes, unavailable, have mental issues.
Who wants a man that is attached? Who needs all that baggage and drama? Really, when I was dating, it was a big deal for me to date someone that had kids and an ex, much less a current wife! Never would do that!
Contradictions...."never" would date if they are married with children or "it was a big deal."
Clarification: When I read the thread, to me it said is the person more attractive. Just because I might find someone attractive doesn't mean I would go after them if I were single. So are we saying would you date them (if you were single) or would you find them attractive? To me that's a distinct difference. So can I get clarification before I vote?
Looks like interest has waned in this unscientific poll.
I have voted.
I find attached women more attractive. About everyone I know is attached (married, single relationship). So, I find them more attractive.
I number among my acquaintances several persons who have an occasional dalliance outside their marriage or singular commitment. Almost to a person they are educated, attractive, bright, and personable. I do not find that their choices in any way make them less a personage than if they trod the straight and narrow.
If anything, they are brighter, happier people because of those choices. They conduct their lives with dignity, treat others the same way and, I think, make the world a better place for their having been in it.
Life is about personal choices and the responsibilities (and pitfalls) that accompany them.