Two of my 40 something male friends are cheating on their wives and at least one of them seems to be committed to leaving his wife. Kids are involved. As a 40 something male I know life can get hard and relationships aren't easy, but dang... there's just not anything distracting enough out there that would cause me to crush my family and crush my sweet wife like that. I just want to encourage the rest of you dudes to be upstanding men in our great community and show yourselves to be trustworthy, loyal, respectful and honorable. It's hurtful when you aren't.