We're ALL victims of circumstance, are we not? Not everyone in tough or unfair situations treat others badly. Some suffer horrible circumstances and still don't. In fact they try and help others bc of what they've suffered.
It's a choice to be miserable, negative and hateful
The Miserable is always someone else. How many people that any of us believe are negative and miserable actually self identify with those same labels?
They probably dont. They see themselves as positive because they are identifying issues that they believe can be so much better with the right care and attention. Other people will view others who challenge their views as negative simply because they were happy in their blissful lack of friction and view that challenge as a negative influence because it interrupts their bliss.
Theres a very simple attraction to divisive comparisons of good people versus bad, positive people versus negative people, and so on. Deep down its probably a vanity issue or a self esteem issue for those that like to make those divisive comparisons. That divisive effort is very easy to do and it redirects the issue as being just about a person rather than the issue being discussed.
Hey peeps! Go outside and spend some time with God's amazing creations! There's new life everywhere! Flowers blooming and new green life blossoming everywhere! And I got new fish for my pond!! Color me HAPPY!! Lol