1. I love you - Silly. I told you once and if I change my mind I will let you know. 2. Here's why I love you. Pedantic 3. Thank you - Agree 4. Your amazing - Silly 5. You are sexy - Well not at my age 6. How can I help you. - Can't argue with that one 7. How are you doing? - Good one, because I am genuinely interested. Or, its because I need a warning on whats about to befall my life. 8. Be intentional with your words - Basically they explain this as using positive words. - Hard to argue with that. 9. Say loving things to your partner. Like she does to me. for example, "the car is making a funny noise and I love it". Is that what they mean?