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I study liars. I've never seen one like Donald Trump.

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Joe Blow --- 7 years ago -

Bella DePaulo


I spent the first two decades of my career as a social scientist studying liars and their lies. I thought I had developed a sense of what to expect from them. Then along came President Donald Trump. His lies are both more frequent and more malicious than ordinary people's.

In research beginning in the mid-1990s, when I was a professor at the University of Virginia, my colleagues and I asked 77 college students and 70 people from the nearby community to keep diaries of all the lies they told every day for a week. They handed them in to us with no names attached. We calculated participants' rates of lying and categorized each lie as either self-serving (told to advantage the liar or protect the liar from embarrassment, blame or other undesired outcomes) or kind (told to advantage, flatter or protect someone else).

At The Washington Post, the Fact Checker feature has been tracking every false and misleading claim and flip-flop made by Trump this year. The inclusion of misleading statements and flip-flops is consistent with the definition of lying my colleagues and I gave to our participants: "A lie occurs any time you intentionally try to mislead someone." In the case of Trump's claims, though, it is possible to ascertain only whether they were false or misleading, and not what the president's intentions were.

I categorized the most recent 400 lies that The Post had documented through mid-November in the same way my colleagues and I had categorized the lies of the participants in our study.

The college students in our research told an average of two lies a day, and the community members told one. (A more recent study of the lies 1,000 U. S. adults told in the previous 24 hours found that people told an average of 1.65 lies per day; the authors noted that 60 percent of the participants said they told no lies at all, while the top 5 percent of liars told nearly half of all the falsehoods in the study.) The most prolific liar among the students told an average of 6.6 lies a day. The biggest liar in the community sample told 4.3 lies in an average day.

In Trump's first 298 days in office, however, he made 1,628 false or misleading claims or flip-flops, by The Post's tally. That's about six per day, far higher than the average rate in our studies. And of course, reporters have access to only a subset of Trump's false statements ? the ones he makes publicly ? so unless he never stretches the truth in private, his actual rate of lying is almost certainly higher.

That rate has been accelerating. Starting in early October, The Post's tracking showed that Trump told a remarkable nine lies a day, outpacing even the biggest liars in our research.

But the flood of deceit isn't the most surprising finding about Trump.

Both the college students and the community members in our study served their own interests with their lies more often than other people's interests. They told lies to try to advantage themselves in the workplace, the marketplace, their personal relationships and just about every other domain of everyday life. For example, a salesperson told a customer that the jeans she was trying on were not too tight, so she could make the sale. The participants also lied to protect themselves psychologically: One college student told a classmate that he wasn't worried about his grades, so the classmate wouldn't think he was stupid.

Less often, the participants lied in kind ways, to help other people get what they wanted, look or feel better, or to spare them from embarrassment or blame. For example, a son told his mother he didn't mind taking her shopping, and a woman took sides with a friend who was divorcing, even though she thought her friend was at fault, too.

About half the lies the participants told were self-serving (46 percent for the college students, 57 percent for the community members), compared with about a quarter that were kind (26 percent for the students, 24 percent for the community members). Other lies did not fit either category; they included, for instance, lies told to entertain or to keep conversations running smoothly.

One category of lies was so small that when we reported the results, we just tucked them into a footnote. Those were cruel lies, told to hurt or disparage others. For example, one person told a co-worker that the boss wanted to see him when he really didn't, "so he'd look like a fool." Just 0.8 percent of the lies told by the college students and 2.4 percent of the lies told by the community members were mean-spirited.

My colleagues and I found it easy to code each of our participants' lies into just one category. This was not the case for Trump. Close to a quarter of his false statements (24 percent) served several purposes simultaneously.

Nearly two-thirds of Trump's lies (65 percent) were self-serving. Examples included: "They're big tax cuts ? the biggest cuts in the history of our country, actually" and, about the people who came to see him on a presidential visit to Vietnam last month: "They were really lined up in the streets by the tens of thousands."

Slightly less than 10 percent of Trump's lies were kind ones, told to advantage, flatter or protect someone else. An example was his statement on Twitter that "it is a 'miracle' how fast the Las Vegas Metropolitan Police were able to find the demented shooter and stop him from even more killing!" In the broadest sense, it is possible to interpret every lie as ultimately self-serving, but I tried to stick to how statements appeared on the surface.

Trump told 6.6 times as many self-serving lies as kind ones. That's a much higher ratio than we found for our study participants, who told about double the number of self-centered lies compared with kind ones.

The most stunning way Trump's lies differed from our participants', though, was in their cruelty. An astonishing 50 percent of Trump's lies were hurtful or disparaging. For example, he proclaimed that John Brennan, James Clapper and James Comey, all career intelligence or law enforcement officials, were "political hacks." He said that "the Sloppy Michael Moore Show on Broadway was a TOTAL BOMB and was forced to close." He insisted that other "countries, they don't put their finest in the lottery system. They put people probably in many cases that they don't want." And he claimed that "Ralph Northam, who is running for Governor of Virginia, is fighting for the violent MS-13 killer gangs & sanctuary cities."

The Trump lies that could not be coded into just one category were typically told both to belittle others and enhance himself. For example: "Senator Bob Corker 'begged' me to endorse him for reelection in Tennessee. I said 'NO' and he dropped out (said he could not win without my endorsement)."

The sheer frequency of Trump's lies appears to be having an effect, and it may not be the one he is going for. A Politico/Morning Consult poll from late October showed that only 35 percent of voters believed that Trump was honest, while 51 percent said he was not honest. (The others said they didn't know or had no opinion.) Results of a Quinnipiac University poll from November were similar: Thirty-seven percent of voters thought Trump was honest, compared with 58 percent who thought he was not.

For fewer than 40 percent of American voters to see the president as honest is truly remarkable. Most humans, most of the time, believe other people. That's our default setting. Usually, we need a reason to disbelieve.

Research on the detection of deception consistently documents this "truth bias." In the typical study, participants observe people making statements and are asked to indicate, each time, whether they think the person is lying or telling the truth. Measuring whether people believe others should be difficult to do accurately, because simply asking the question disrupts the tendency to assume that other people are telling the truth. It gives participants a reason to wonder. And yet, in our statistical summary of more than 200 studies, Charles F. Bond Jr. and I found that participants still believed other people more often than they should have ? 58 percent of the time in studies in which only half of the statements were truthful. People are biased toward believing others, even in studies in which they are told explicitly that only half of the statements they will be judging are truths.

By telling so many lies, and so many that are mean-spirited, Trump is violating some of the most fundamental norms of human social interaction and human decency. Many of the rest of us, in turn, have abandoned a norm of our own ? we no longer give Trump the benefit of the doubt that we usually give so readily. 

SagaciousSighFiGurl (Mod) --- 7 years ago -

Maybe his pants are on fire??!!! Lol!! 

Let Logic Prevail --- 7 years ago -

That's all you have to say about this analysis?

No matter which way you look at it, Trump has some deep-seated psychological issues. 

Emperor of Kingwood --- 7 years ago -

No matter which way you look at it, Trump has some deep-seated psychological issues.

So now you're a licensed Psychiatrist that has examined Trump? 

fuzz81 --- 7 years ago -

bob needs one, which is why he asks. Don?t waste your time though.. you can fix crazy, but you can?t fix stupid. 

Not KU --- 7 years ago -

bob bob bob
Do you think Trump is not crazy? Do you not hear the things he says? He's the Narcissist of narcissism 

Emperor of Kingwood --- 7 years ago -

Do you think Trump is not crazy? Do you not hear the things he says? He's the Narcissist of narcissism

I'm not qualified to make any psychological assessment of anyone. Neither are you. 

jackass --- 7 years ago -

The author is... 

Emperor of Kingwood --- 7 years ago -

The author is...

How many therapy sessions has the author had with Trump? 

jackass --- 7 years ago -

Psychological evaluation isn?t all about therapy...observation is a huge factor. 

RiteWingKing --- 7 years ago -

How many therapy sessions has the author had with Trump?



Irrelevant. Trump is guilty as charged. 

Zapper009 --- 7 years ago -

 

Emperor of Kingwood --- 7 years ago -

he made 1,628 false or misleading claims or flip-flops,

Talk abhout a convoluted data set. 

Not KU --- 7 years ago -

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Quite an accomplishment indeed 

Not KU --- 7 years ago -

Psychological evaluation isn't all about therapy...observation is a huge factor.

I really like that one 

SoupIsGoodFood --- 7 years ago -

TDS has hit a new high on KU 

fuzz81 --- 7 years ago -

For anyone who doesn?t know what TDS means, it?s trump dips***s 

SoupIsGoodFood --- 7 years ago -

^^^ exhibit A

Keep up the good work, fuzzball. 

fuzz81 --- 7 years ago -

^^^ exhibit B. King TDS 

SoupIsGoodFood --- 7 years ago -

LOL......

You've got it bad, fuzzy. 

Joe Blow --- 7 years ago -

Liar in Chief is what he is referred to all over the internets. One can easily see why. 

SoupIsGoodFood --- 7 years ago -

Joey believing everything he reads on the internets. It doesn't get any better than that. 

Emperor of Kingwood --- 7 years ago -

If you like your doctor you can keep your doctor

ACA will make Healthcare cheaper

My private server was only used for personal emails

There were no classified emails on my private server

Every bill will be placed on line before voting

I didn't have sex with that woman. 

Not KU --- 7 years ago -

Lame lame lame when KU pubs can only site half truths as a defense for Trump.

Nevermind states blocked the ACA so you could not keep your dr.

Nevermind the rate of increase for the ACA was less than if nothing was done, again states refusing to work with the president attributed to the ACA being not as effective as designed. GOP obstruction.

Nevermind HRC was grilled for 12 hrs and nothing came of it.

Lame. Didnt have sex with that women...At least that was consensual. Not locker room talk or creeping into a dressing room. pathetic that some on KU support such a douche bag president like Trump 

Emperor of Kingwood --- 7 years ago -

No. States did not block ACA.

Did you ever study the future cost to the states? 

Prolix Raconteur --- 7 years ago -

No. States did not block ACA.

But, but...it was on a Democrat Underground meme!?!? 

Emperor of Kingwood --- 7 years ago -

Nevermind. I used the word "study" in reference to Mark. I should've known better. 

Not KU --- 7 years ago -

Lame. Didnt have sex with that women...At least that was consensual. Not locker room talk or creeping into a dressing room. pathetic that some on KU support such a douche bag president like Trump

Its worth repeating 

Prolix Raconteur --- 7 years ago -

No. It really wasn't worth repeating. 

Not KU --- 7 years ago -

No. It really wasn't worth repeating.

Sure it was. How isolated and pointless your life would be if I didn't post 

Prolix Raconteur --- 7 years ago -

Well, you got me there.... 

Emperor of Kingwood --- 7 years ago -

Yes Mark, your posts are like watching a monkey sh&t fight. 

AwesomeTattooedDragon --- 7 years ago -

When you're really important, Mark send you pm's inviting you to kiss his back side- Thanks, Mark, but I'll pass- your head's in the way, anyway! lol! 

SoupIsGoodFood --- 7 years ago -

LOL......... Wayne never learns. 

Not KU --- 7 years ago -

Emperor of Kingwood --- 2 hours ago - quote - hide comments

Yes Mark, your posts are like watching a monkey sh&t fight.

AwesomeTattooedDragon --- 1 hours ago - quote - hide comments

When you're really important, Mark send you pm's inviting you to kiss his back side- Thanks, Mark, but I'll pass- your head's in the way, anyway! lol!
SoupIsGoodFood --- 1 hours ago - quote - hide comments

LOL......... Wayne never learns.



LOL at the mods that ask "Mark, why cant you keep things civil"? KU mods: Just a joke 

AwesomeTattooedDragon --- 7 years ago -

Wow, mark! You tell me to kiss your backside, and then complain I wasn't being civil when I answered you! Kinda thin skin for a guy with a potty mouth! LOL! 

Joe Blow --- 7 years ago -

Did you ever study the future cost to the states??



Booby, did you ever study the future costs of medical care to states such as Tejas with the biggest roll of the uninsured and one of the lousiest healthcare situations in the country?

Gee willickers I wonder who is going to pay for all these uninsureds Texans accruing costs in the ER's here.

Oh how these pesky facts keep cropping up today. 

Joe Blow --- 7 years ago -

No. States did not block ACA.


Booby, forgot to address this statement of yours. Yea they did block parts of it like the medicaid expansion which is why so many Texans are f@#ked today. Yea the state would have to pay 10% of that cost but better than 100% of the costs these now uninsured Texans are going to have.

FN DUH 

Joe Blow --- 7 years ago -

LOL at the mods that ask "Mark, why cant you keep things civil"? KU mods: Just a joke?



Well it is ridiculous how they ignore the 24-7 constant attacks Mark gets. But then ice him at the slightest attempt of a pushback.

SSDD on the biased moderation here which is why this place is a snoozefest. If not for me, fuzzy and Mark there'd be no action whatsoever except maybe a post here and there about the weather or an ugly xmas sweater contest. 

Not KU --- 7 years ago -

Wow, mark! You tell me to kiss your backside
In a private message. Also in the same private message was the option to mind your own business. But you had to put that in the public forum, along with a personal insult. Clearly against the rules of the forum.
A real class act you are dragon. 

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