I know, one is more secure, but the other elicits passion and excitement.

Two frames of mind:

1) Life is short, live with no regrets
so have a partner that is wild, spontaneous, adventurous, in other words, a Ferrari Spyder

2) Seek security and stability, so have a partner who is consistent, plans things out, can be counted on, but is somewhat dull and unimaginative...in other words, a Toyota Camry


Which would you choose? 

Or a Hyundai Sonata. Let's be fair. They open all kinds of hidden doors. 

I want both. There are times to be serious ab-out life and things that have to be discussed in a serious manner. Then I like to let go and be wild and spontaneous. There is a right time for both behaviors. 

I have a 1. He might think I am 2 though, so I guess we balance each other out!

My husband is wild and crazy; there is no taming him.

But he's supportive, sexy, has a great career, doesn't mind my obsession with my horses, and is a fantastic bartender. 

ok man...we get it. go the route of bruce jenner and be done with it. 

There is a right time for both behaviors.


People are usually one or the other. It's part of their personality. 

Or a Hyundai Sonata. Let's be fair. They open all kinds of hidden doors.


I have a Hyundai GENESIS thank you very much. 

I don't like to be bored, but I don't want a lunatic- it seems like it's one or the other- 

it seems like it's one or the other-


Yep. Unfortunately, that's usually what life offers you. 

I have had #1, and like the spyder, it was fun for about 6 months, then it was time to trade her in. 

I have had #1, and like the spyder, it was fun for about 6 months, then it was time to trade her in.

I don't believe this for a second, Mr. Missionary Vanilla. 

I am more of a 2 and he is a nice 1 with a splash of 2, lol. 

I don't believe this for a second, Mr. Missionary Vanilla.

I had my share of those women. Just get tiring after awhile. I think there is a perfect saying for that type of woman, read it on a bathroom wall in some bar in New Orleans: "No matter how good she looks, someone, somewhere is tired of her sh#t." 

Works both ways Max... 

"No matter how good she looks, someone, somewhere is tired of her sh#t."

LOL
Absolutely.

Works both ways Max...

Yes! 

idontplaynice





You have a multiple KU personality disorder. 

read it on a bathroom wall in some bar in New Orleans: "No matter how good she looks, someone, somewhere is tired of her sh#t."


Hey! I've read the same thing in the women's bathro-om wall only about *his* shi#t. 

You have a multiple KU personality disorder.


I only have once account on here and this is it. 

I guess I am both personalities then. I used to love being wild and crazy but at my age, I am too tired to do that any more. And so it is time for some life planning. Sad but t-rue! 

Lol Tink! Pick one day a week to be wild... 

A good woman has aspects of all and knows when to employee both. 

Lol Tink! Pick one day a week to be wild...

There is wild and there is WILD 

I have some wild sto-ries, does that count? 

I have some wild sto-ries, does that count?

Only if they are first person. 

I'm with Tink- there's a time for wild, and a time to put it to rest- I think, deep down, though, the wild will always be there! 

Wild NEVER EVER leaves...as we get older we have it in its place. Bring out as required/desired! 

Once, at band camp... 

Those are two extremes. I think most settle for somewhere in between. I do.

I like a little spice in life, but I generally like to plan some of it.

I like small gambles, but would not bet the farm on drawing to an inside straight.

I prefer the term "colorful" instead of "wild".

I'm secure enough in my personhood to not be threatened by yours.

I love little acts of serendipity and my life is full of them.

And, for Tink: There was more than once, in a land far away... 

I'm wild and fun so I need stable and sensible. LOL 

Lol, like that post Mr. Butter! 

Once, at band camp...

Yes, and..... 

Sometimes a guy just has to let the wild come out and play and don his dress and size 11 pumps. 

Sometimes a guy just has to let the wild come out and play and don his dress and size 11 pumps.?


For you, that's called Wednesday. 

I like solid and stable. Someone I can lean on and who can lean on me. That's lasting. Wild is only fun until times get hard. 

Are we all only one or the other? Am believing no... 

Are we all only one or the other? Am believing no...

I don't think so either, Mutton.

I like roller coasters in amusement parks, not life. 

Lmao! 

I like spontaneous, that isn't necessarily wild. It's not being so rigid you can't let loose, do something expensive or a little crazy or different. I'm not going to ever be the drunk girl meme showing her peed in panties after a drunk nite, lol, but I might wanna spend the nite in a REAL castle or make a dance video for fun. 

Some great castles in the UK. I've been to a few and some palaces like buckingham .. Really awesome. Definitely go sometime! 

I really wanna do that! But it has to be a real one, not staged. LOL